Ay! Ok. hehe
I guess I know what you exactly mean by your previous post.
Actually I already have a girlfriend. She's also a YFC and she's 2 years older than me. I did ask God for her but never expected her to be mine... kakalito ano?
When I first met her, I didn't have these special feelings for her. She was never the woman of my dreams. But...akalain mo, nhulog ako sa kanya... And the funny thing was she hated me a lot during that time because I was such a snob. And the rest is His story.
SO ano ngayon eh me love na ako?
And so another meaning for "true love waits" arises from oblivion. (asteg)
It should not be denied that many youngsters nowadays are into PMS as in
Premarital Sex...Oo
SEX, yah, sex nga! Most youngsters today do not recognize the sanctity of sexual intercourse. Which is meant for married couple only.
This is partly due to lack of sex education, partly due to environment, partly due to media, and partly due to the upbringing of the parents.
Sex should be treated as a sacred part procreation. It's not a game to be played upon. Naku! Delikado 'pag ndisgrasya! It's really difficult to face social embarrassment.
And guess what, someday the offspring will ask the parent: "Mom/Dad, how did I come to be?". What sort of answer will the poor offspring, I mean child get? And what if when the child grows up, he/she will discover the real answer? Again, another emotional issue.
And speaking of the dreaded STD. Wag na lang, alam nyo na yan.
SO guys, true love waits. Maghintay kayo sa tamang panahon para mapagsaluhan ninyo ang init at ligaya ng pag-ibig.
I'm going to address this to the brothers here:
If you really love your girl, give her some respect. Don't force her into a dilemma of giving herself up to you in return for your "love" for her.
Tell me, what sort of assurance will she get from you by doing it? Is she worth it? Will you live by your promise? Pagkatao mo ang nakasalalay, kung marunong ka lang magpaasa, wala kang kwentang lalake. Ang tunay na lalake nirerespeto at minamahal ang babae.
And to the sisters:
When your guy asks you to do it, the next event will depend on the decision you are going to make.
And this post is getting a little bit long now.. I guess I should end here and let the Community do it's best on this issue.
As for me and my girl, we are still deeply committed to each other despite the misunderstandings and our differences..and we're still virgins. Thank God.
Peace be to all.
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true love really waits..
kuya earwin..
